Chandler David Smith
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Life Update: I Got Married
Maddy is my whole world and when she died I didn’t want to do life without her. Our love and life was perfect and losing her was beyond debilitating. Days before Maddy passed, I cracked and told her I didn't know how I was going to do it without her. I asked her how I was going to find purpose with life and what I was supposed to do. She paused, and responded, "Live it for them and before you know it you will be living it for you again.”
Life without Maddy is substantially harder than I ever could have imagined. Everything without her has been excruciatingly painful. After weeks of trying to make sense of life, I realized that the only way I could properly memorialize Maddy’s legacy was by living the way I know she would want me to. My mantra for life has become, BECAUSE OF MADDY. Because of Maddy, I parent better. Because of Maddy, I want to always be present and live life to the fullest. I spent quality time with my kids playing and helping them work through not having their mom here anymore. I started connecting with other widows and widowers to better understand how to give my kids the best life possible as a single parent. One of those widows was Jessica Dennert. She lost her husband Tyson, her father, two brothers, brother in law, her grandfather and three other family members in a horrible accident. When the accident happened, she had two beautiful children and was pregnant with a third. The life she has lived is beyond inspiring to me. One of the first things she told me is that the pain of grief doesn’t go away, you just get better at carrying it. My first meeting with Jessica just solidified my thought that the best part of life had come and gone. We both felt validated that we had found and lost incredible love and we would never find something close to it again. We had no idea that we would change each other’s minds.
As we talked about Maddy and Tyson, we found similarities in our parenting styles, our views on life, and the special love we both had and lost. I didn’t think anyone could understand my loss or the love that me and Maddy have, but Jessica did. One of my new favorite phrases is that two things can be true. I can experience extreme gratitude, love, and admiration for Maddy and Jessica at the same time. I can love Wren and Andi and I can love Hanley Will and Blakely. I can grieve and miss Maddy every day while simultaneously having an exceptional love with Jessica full of beautiful, and spectacular moments. I can’t explain it, but I’m so grateful for it. I will never be able to understand why Maddy and Tyson can’t be here to see their children grow up, but I’m so grateful for the opportunity to figure out the rest of my life with Jessica, Hanley, Wren, Will, Andi, and Blakely. Jessica and I still have so much to figure out, but because of Maddy and Tyson we have incredible examples of exceptional marriages to build on and exemplify. We will live and love like Maddy and Tyson. For Tyson. Because of Maddy.
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Відео

Maddy's Last Year
Переглядів 6 млн7 місяців тому
Madalyn Rae (Welsh) Smith passed away just weeks before her 27th birthday at her home next to the love of her life and her beautiful children. They were surrounded by friends and family. This was far too soon, but everyone knew Maddy had lived every day with urgency. She loved deeply and showed sincere interest in everyone. She could overpower a room with her smile and energy, while at the same...
Maddy’s Battle With Cancer
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She was beautiful, patient, selfless, loving, ferocious, and kind. She drew people in and made them feel like their lives and problems were her priority. She was animated, fiery and strong yet so gentle and considerate. She loved me and our children endlessly. Maddy adored our quirks and magnified our strengths. She was always positive and hopeful- one of the biggest questions I got through thi...
First Time Using Tesla Self-Drive
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In this video, Chandler tests out Tesla’s Full Self-Driving beta software in the tricky Idaho snow! In this video, you may recognize his brother Payton who recently purchased a new Tesla Model S! While it’s been a dream of a car to own, Tesla and Elon Musk have definitely been in the news quite a bit lately. As for the controversial FSD beta software, you may have seen other tests done, but we ...
Duplex Nightmare (My Worst Real Estate Investment)
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In this video, Chandler takes us through another one of his first investment properties. Having this duplex for quite a few years, it has been through a lot, with lots of history - good and bad (some viral, some not). He dives into all of the juicy details by crunching the numbers of current rents, expenses, and how he distributes his cashflow. It’s important to analyze the positives and negati...
Buying My First Four-Plex (update)
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In this video, Chandler takes a blast to the past by showing us the very first 4-plex he ever bought. He dives into all of the juicy details by crunching the numbers of current rents, expenses, and how he distributes his cashflow. It’s important to analyze the positives and negatives that have transpired over the years so as to learn from the past and make appropriate changes if necessary. As w...
Buying My 1st Duplex (7 year update)
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In this video, Chandler takes a blast to the past by showing us his very first investment property. He dives into all of the juicy details by crunching the numbers of current rents, expenses, and how he distributes his cashflow. It’s important to analyze the positives and negatives that have transpired over the years so as to learn from the past and make appropriate changes if necessary. As wit...
Hardest Year of My Life
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In this video, Chandler talks about how this year has been one of the most sad, difficult, and challenging ones he’s ever experienced. From his wife and brother being diagnosed with cancer, to changes in work and relationships, it definitely hasn’t been easy. Despite all of this, Chandler recognizes his blessings and the great opportunities that have come about despite the hard times. Life is d...
I Spent $700,000 On Landscape
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In today’s video, Chandler gives you an exclusive tour of his dream home’s landscaping. His family loves spending time together outdoors, so they took extra time to strategically plan and design their outdoor environment! This planning resulted in a fun par-3, beautiful orchard, native wildflowers, rustic pizza oven, and over 400 trees! Making all of this become a reality will allow Chandler an...
How I Retired a Millionaire at 31
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In today’s video, Chandler reflects over the past 10 years - where he started out and how he arrived to where he’s at today. Growing up, he knocked doors for work around the community, then knocked doors as a missionary for his church. These early experiences taught him discipline and how to face rejection. While in college, the opportunity to do door to door sales popped up. Even though he fac...
Worst School In America (D91 School Bond)
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Vote ‘YES’ for the D91 School Bond! Growing up in Idaho Falls, I know what it’s like to go to school in this community, and the different school bonds that have been proposed. This certain bond caught me off-guard at first, making me feel like we would unnecessarily increase taxes to our community that is already struggling in this current economy. However, as I dived into the details of the bo...
Dream Home Update. STILL NOT FINISHED
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My biggest real-estate project is [almost] finished! If you’ve been following me, you know that I’ve been working on my dream home for 3 years now. Like most dreams, our home has seemed out-of-reach with delays and nightmares that ranged from big market fluctuations to a couple wrong door handles. But, also like a dream, we have [almost] conquered the beast, [almost] made it to the end of the r...
Dream Home Disaster
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This is my most intense dream home update yet! Amidst the long delays, surprises (good and bad), and roller-coaster of a time this dream home has been for my family, we are FINALLY at the finish line - or so we thought. It’s like that scene in the movies where the main character is about to cross the finish line - the camera slows down, you can hear their heartbeat, and you’re wondering whether...
I Have to Move in with My Parents...
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I Have to Move in with My Parents...
The Fed Just Started a Recession
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The Fed Just Started a Recession
I'm Getting Evicted...
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I'm Getting Evicted...
Colon Cancer (1 Year Update)
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Colon Cancer (1 Year Update)
Touring the Stradman’s Dream Home
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Touring the Stradman’s Dream Home
Buying Post Malone/Stradman’s Lamborghini Urus
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Buying Post Malone/Stradman’s Lamborghini Urus
House Update with Stradman
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House Update with Stradman
Yogi Bought Stradman‘s Ferrari
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Yogi Bought Stradman‘s Ferrari
Storage Unit Update - Our Best Investment Ever!
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Storage Unit Update - Our Best Investment Ever!
WE ARE IN A RECESSION - Do This!
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WE ARE IN A RECESSION - Do This!
I'm Retiring…
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I'm Retiring…
15 Days Until I LOSE My House Loan! (House Update)
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15 Days Until I LOSE My House Loan! (House Update)
Inflation Gone Wild (What is Next for Real Estate Investors)
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Inflation Gone Wild (What is Next for Real Estate Investors)
Step-by-Step Process to Buying a Four-Plex
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Step-by-Step Process to Buying a Four-Plex
I Bought a 5-Unit Apartment!
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I Bought a 5-Unit Apartment!
Buying A House Is The Best Investment a Poor Person Can Make
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Buying A House Is The Best Investment a Poor Person Can Make

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @carmenrgomez6613
    @carmenrgomez6613 21 годину тому

    So beautiful to see how you have found love again. No one understands the grief of losing a spouse unless you go through it. I understand that pain. I lost my husband in 2016 and its a pain that no one understands but God. I saw your video about Maddy and just saw this one. The children are blessed to have parents who love them so much and now have found love again. You never forget your spouse. God and time heals the heart.

  • @user-od5sh1ck5g
    @user-od5sh1ck5g День тому

    Chandler, I’m so happy you found someone to share your journey with. I don’t doubt for a minute that Maddie and Tyson brought you both together. What a beautiful blessing for all!

  • @PhoenixAffiliate
    @PhoenixAffiliate День тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss, she seems like a beautiful soul. 💜

  • @lenkasimandlova2042
    @lenkasimandlova2042 День тому

    Somehow your video show up to me just days after my only brother passed aged 38. We had no idea how serious it was. One morning he was took to the hospital and whitin 30 hours was gone.. I have no idea what is" better". To have the time to process what is going on, time to enjoy little things one last time, to say goodbye.. I deeply hope you and the kids are at the some kind od piece, living your best.

  • @christinaramirez2384
    @christinaramirez2384 День тому

    You have such a big heart and you deserve to be happy after all you went through. I for one am very happy you found love again, Congratulations.

  • @stephaniemoore2510
    @stephaniemoore2510 День тому

    There’s countless people going through these things and I’m so happy when you share it because I’ve never experienced cancer or any serious health problems in my life but Maddie with all that she went through she is definitely done more with her life that I have at all of mine. She is a beautiful person and made beautiful children and a beautiful family. It’s all so touching.

  • @sandrawenger7921
    @sandrawenger7921 День тому

    Wow - what a beautiful story! Beautiful family!

  • @user-to9ux9tj8r
    @user-to9ux9tj8r День тому

    Now four years later its squatters and illegal trash.

  • @sammason136
    @sammason136 День тому

    I also had the same cancer as your brother

  • @stedmays2768
    @stedmays2768 День тому

    thinly veiled sleaze........I know you r probably well meaning, but I hope that tenants don't fall for your interim-lease rent raises. Good grief.

  • @kfergus3662
    @kfergus3662 День тому

    I sold my house as is and the buyer is paying closing cost

  • @comandersid87
    @comandersid87 День тому

    I can only imagine going through all this. Personally, I have a caretaker too. My husband has been helping me for our entire time being married. I was diagnosed with Heart Failure in 2009 and put on a heart pump and listed for transplant in 2019/2020. Just waiting for myself is killer and I can only imagine how it is on my husband. I thank God every day for him and his willingness to help take care of me. I hope that everyone can find someone who would stick around when things get tough but it takes such a special person for all of that. Love y'all ❤

  • @kylesmiles3714
    @kylesmiles3714 День тому

    You and Jessica are so strong man. Love.

  • @MrMobiIeGaming
    @MrMobiIeGaming День тому

    what a journey. 26:21 was cool

  • @kylesmiles3714
    @kylesmiles3714 День тому

    24 man here, got me with tears for you and your family. Such a beautiful family. This reminds me to not take things for granted. Take care, stay strong.

  • @christinadunn6802
    @christinadunn6802 День тому

    Im a landlord and I have a mold clause in my lease.

  • @christinadunn6802
    @christinadunn6802 День тому

    Oops!

  • @sandradonnelly6399
    @sandradonnelly6399 День тому

    I lost my soul mate less than 2 year's tbh l cant even think.of starting another relationship yet never mind marrying. But if yr happy best wishes to you

  • @swiftie.vids.13
    @swiftie.vids.13 День тому

    This literally broke my heart 😭😭

  • @lindagallant5309
    @lindagallant5309 День тому

    Massive

  • @lindagallant5309
    @lindagallant5309 День тому

    Why is there water in the pool?

  • @jerrythecoo3295
    @jerrythecoo3295 День тому

    Maddy.🌟

  • @lcwathome821
    @lcwathome821 День тому

    I'm divorced after 45 years of marriage..id love to be able to go talk about it all to others.. could u share any group for those who are divorced ..i would appreciate if u do..its been 4 years now..im so happy you found each other to love and support each other! Thanks for ur response !

  • @djhemry
    @djhemry День тому

    This kind of love is from the jpheart of Jesus. Thank you for your transparency. You’re a good guy!

  • @oliviakoconnor3353
    @oliviakoconnor3353 День тому

    Found this video randomly and I’m over here sobbing 😭 Praying for your family and friends.

  • @paultexasusa1366
    @paultexasusa1366 День тому

    Cool man thank you for sharing your experience and your achievement so far

  • @user-od5sh1ck5g
    @user-od5sh1ck5g День тому

    Maddy was so beautiful and brave and strong. She is an incredible loving mother. You don’t see many Maddys in this world today. It doesn’t seem fair! As a cancer survivor, I can say Maddy is a true warrior! She fought some battle. My god, this life doesn’t make sense! I’m sorry Chandler and Maddys family for your loss. May be she your angel and the wind that blows through your hair. The butterfly that lands on your shoulder, for she will be always be near.

  • @MobileMarksman.
    @MobileMarksman. День тому

    She was so young to get colon cancer. My mom died of it four years ago. At 61

  • @Ryan-kw7gj
    @Ryan-kw7gj 2 дні тому

    Your way only works if you sell the house now. Plus you’re counting on the housing market trend to continue. Dave’s way is solid no matter the market.

  • @saminaali4190
    @saminaali4190 2 дні тому

    RIP maddy 😢❤

  • @maryadair5697
    @maryadair5697 2 дні тому

    Our pastor lost his wife and their good friends had lost her husband. About 7 months after they married. It was the perfect match. Life wasn't easy for a blended family but they made it. All the kids are married now and they have many grandkids to visit. Congratulations!! 💐on your marriage.

  • @evelyng.3801
    @evelyng.3801 2 дні тому

    Who should orchestrate such a miracle than only our heavenly Father! May the peace of Jesus Christ rule in your wonderful family! I worship God for All of you!!

  • @cristinacattaneo4785
    @cristinacattaneo4785 2 дні тому

    Sto piangendo 😢😢

  • @saminaali4190
    @saminaali4190 2 дні тому

    Rip maddy ❤ keep smiling in heaven

  • @harleyrider4629
    @harleyrider4629 2 дні тому

    Dave Ramsey’s counsel is solid. Don’t let anyone fool you. When the real estate market collapses your counsel goes out the window.

  • @motoryzen
    @motoryzen 2 дні тому

    No dude, you were or are done with your finances not because of people like Dave Ramsey giving fact-based advice from years of experience of learning the hard way and then later doing the right things and accomplishing things the sensible way, but because you think facts aren't a thing and you think that dead is a good thing

  • @shawncampbell3862
    @shawncampbell3862 2 дні тому

    I have watched my sister go through the loss of her spouse and I've have had multiple losses the last few months. It isn't easy ever, but God never leaves us not forsakes us. We will never understand why they had to go, but we can lean on God to give us strength for those tough times. I'm so thankful you found Jessica and her babies. God knew she needed your family as much as y'all needed them. Maddie and Tyson would be so thankful that you all found/ have each other to carry on. Trust in that and make the most of your future together as one big family. God bless and comfort you all. ❤

  • @MrLorcanduffy
    @MrLorcanduffy 2 дні тому

    Many congratulations. Good to see you have found happiness again. Best of luck.

  • @nikkigussalazar5005
    @nikkigussalazar5005 2 дні тому

    I guess I just don't understand... How can you loose the love of your life, the mother of your children in such a horrible way and still able to meet someone new, become friends, then become intimate, bring them into your childrens life, THEN get engaged and marry them all within less then a year from Maddy dying? I just don't understand, at all. I do think people have the right and SHOULD move on and find love if they choose to later in life but so soon? I just couldn't imagine this. I couldn't even imagine looking at another man in a romantic way after loosing my husband not even a year. I just hope she ends up being a safe person for yourself and most importantly your children. I guess that's the most shoking thing, I just couldn't bring someone into my kids home and world so soon after they just watched their mother di3. How can you know this person is a safe person? There is absolutely no way you can know that about a person even a year after starting a relationship. I don't know, just wild to me.

  • @rrr441
    @rrr441 2 дні тому

    The thumbnail is... disturbing.

  • @cookingwithvicki9292
    @cookingwithvicki9292 2 дні тому

    chandler, my heart is overjoyed for you and for your blended family. jessica looks lovely and the universe is so incredible. maddie and jessica’s husband are smiling and cheering you on. wishing you all a lifetime of love, peace and good health. people unfortunately are dealing with their own struggles and sometimes people in general can be negative but that’s their journey. keep shining ing bright and spreading your awesome energy. love never dies ❤ congratulations again. god bless you all. thank you for sharing this joyful blessing. love to you all beautiful family.

  • @Maybelis0611
    @Maybelis0611 2 дні тому

    Did she die I don’t get it

  • @programmerm5907
    @programmerm5907 2 дні тому

    Bro … I’m so sorry. But what a beautiful life she gave you while she was here. Hope you’re doing okay. RIP

  • @user-ns7vj4tz5h
    @user-ns7vj4tz5h 2 дні тому

    Death is a reality but it's hard to face 😥

  • @amayautumn
    @amayautumn 2 дні тому

    Children. Look what drugs do to you.

  • @amayautumn
    @amayautumn 2 дні тому

    This is typical for horrible tenants. Complain because they won't pay their bills. And it's they owners fault.

  • @lt5976
    @lt5976 2 дні тому

    Boring

  • @dan.c9008
    @dan.c9008 2 дні тому

    Life is so unfair. RIP

  • @ericabryant5347
    @ericabryant5347 2 дні тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @debtrethewey-tervree9928
    @debtrethewey-tervree9928 2 дні тому

    FINALLY I found someone who isn't telling me that the pain of losing someone "gets better as time goes on" because it doesn't, it's actually getting worse. Just about 2yrs ago I Iost my son. But it feels like it was only just yesterday that I had to kick down his bedroom door only to find him after he took his own life. It hasn't gotten better or easier and honestly I'd rather just be with him. But to finally hear someone say it doesn't get easier over time, you just learn to carry it better makes more sense to me than anything else people have said to me. I don't think I'm at that point yet and I don't know if I ever will be. But here's hoping I do. Your story is beautiful. Thank you for sharing it.